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I’m an American mom raising my son in Denmark. I want him to belong here, even when I still feel in between 2 cultures.

I was sitting in my cargo bike outside my son’s børnehave (kindergarten) on an especially bitter February morning in Copenhagen, crying over forgetting his Fastelavn costume at home. Loading audio narration… Fastelavn, for the uninitiated, is Denmark’s candy-filled, costume-wearing, barrel-smashing children’s tradition, somewhere between Halloween and Carnival. It’s something Danes…

I had an identity crisis after becoming a mom. Hiring a career coach helped.

Over the nine months of pregnancy with my first baby, I mentally prepared myself for those middle-of-the-night feedings (and the resulting exhaustion), the postpartum mood swings, and other inevitable life changes. Loading audio narration… One thing I didn’t prepare myself for? The identity crisis set in as soon as I…