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I Moved in With My in-Laws Because We Can’t Afford a Home in Houston

I never thought I’d find myself arguing about dryer sheets with my mother-in-law at midnight, but that’s my new reality.A few years ago, my husband and I moved in with his parents because the rent in Houston was eating into our savings. A “temporary stay” at my in-laws was supposed…

Going on Vacation With in-Laws Means Balancing Parenting Styles

I sensed there could be tension as soon as I stepped into the beautiful vacation home my parents-in-law had kindly rented for our big family holiday.”‘Isn’t it a wonderful view?” my mother-in-law said, looking out at the sparkling sea.”Lots of glass around though — wouldn’t it be awful if the…

How Do I Survive Vacation With My Passive-Aggressive in-Laws?

Dear For Love & Money,I’m a direct person. I say what I mean and mean what I say. This approach has always worked for me. Even when my honesty upsets people, at least they know where they stand with me. Except for with my husband’s family. He and I had…

Buying a House With My in-Laws Has Provided Stability

We were just past our first year of marriage when my husband’s parents opened up to us about their cognitive decline. They told us they had two options: move into a nursing home, or live with us.They did their research, letting us know that if they were able to get…