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What We Learned From Elon Musk’s First-Ever Davos Appearance: Not Much

Elon Musk once called Davos “boring af.” After his first appearance, some attendees might agree with him.The billionaire took to the stage at the World Economic Forum in a surprise appearance on Thursday for an interview that touched on many points of his sprawling business empire — but offered few…

I Learned How to Enjoy Eating Alone After Years of Hosting Others

It’s no coincidence that my last name, Mesa, translates to “table.” I believe I was born to work in the hospitality industry, and my passion for hosting people was nurtured from a young age. Growing up in the Dominican Republic with my maternal grandparents not only introduced me to an…

Left the US to Start Over After a Tragedy; Made Mistakes and Learned

It’s been almost four years since a condo fire sent me packing to Central America for my first-ever solo backpacking trip.New passport in hand, I flew to Belize to get scuba certified and maybe “find myself” — but honestly, I had no clue what I was getting into. That first…

I Learned Why My Adult Kids Don’t Want My Parenting Advice

Just about every day, someone asks me for advice. Often it’s a question about parenting, something I have been practicing for decades as the mother of five.Friends, colleagues, and mothers at the beginning of their parenting journey want to know how I dealt with a myriad of concerns, everything from…

How I Learned to Celebrate Christmas After My Son Died

As the first Christmas after my son William’s death approached, I couldn’t bear the thought of putting up a Christmas tree. I couldn’t imagine displaying all the nutcrackers we had collected together. I couldn’t walk into our usual family gathering pretending to be OK. I was petrified of being watched,…

I Worked at Tesla and Waymo. I Learned These Leadership Lessons.

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Spencer Penn, the 33-year-old founder of LightSource, who lives in San Francisco. It’s been edited for length and clarity.I moved to California 10 years ago, back when Tesla was a boutique car business. We were making 1,000 vehicles a week.My friends…

I Learned Too Much From My Year-End App Recaps

Spotify Wrapped could already feel humiliating. This year, there are more opportunities than ever to flip over the stone that is your phone habits and see what crawls out.Last year, my top artist was Florence + The Machine. I stand by it; “What Kind of Man” is one of the…