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I Did More Chores Than My Husband. Swapping Roles Helped Find Balance.

This essay is based on a conversation with Tracy Gunn, 50, who is based in Dublin. In 2021, she cofounded Platform55, which helps businesses create more equal and diverse environments. It has been edited for length and clarity.Before my husband and I had children, I earned more than him.I had…

The Holiday Load in My House Falls on My Husband — Not Me

All the conversations with my mom friends right now revolve around how exhausted they all are because of the holidays.The pressure to keep up with the holiday magic is the number one topic of conversation, often accompanied by the observation that husbands simply don’t participate in making it happen.I can’t…

How I Balance Motherhood With My Husband Hunter Henry’s NFL Career

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Parker Henry. It has been edited for length and clarity.When my husband, Hunter Henry, signed with the New England Patriots in 2021, I was skeptical about moving to Boston. Yet after we arrived, I was surprised that Massachusetts reminded me of…

I Started a Home Inspection Business at 55 After My Husband Died

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Jacqueline Gathers, owner of JS Gathers Pillar to Post Home Inspectors franchise. It has been edited for length and clarity.I’m a third-generation civil servant. I spent 30 years at the New York City Housing Authority. I enjoyed the work and felt…

My Husband Plays in the NFL. Life Is Not As Glamorous As People Think.

This story is based on an interview with Ali Ridgeway, 28, currently living in New Orleans. She is married to NFL player John Ridgeway, 26. The conversation has been edited for length and clarity.People often think that the wives and girlfriends of professional football players live an entirely glamorous lifestyle.Not…

Why My Husband and I Spend Our Days Apart When We Travel

As I get up from the breakfast table and kiss my husband goodbye, I realize I need to hurry if I’m going to make my train.I’m not running off to a work meeting. We’re on vacation in Paris and doing what we now do on every trip: exploring our destination…