In many ways, my grandmother raised me.
We spent countless days together, and her face is at the center of some of my fondest childhood memories. She’s one of the greatest influences in my life, shaping everything from how I see the world to how I dress.
Even as a 23-year-old, I admire her sense of style. Throughout her life, she’s built an elegant wardrobe that draws from trends without necessarily following them.
At 70 years old, she continues to inspire me. Whenever I open my wardrobe to choose an outfit, I carry one of her invaluable lessons with me.
One of her core beliefs is that accessories should add to an outfit, not overwhelm it
I love accessories, often throwing on chunky jewelry, layering bold pieces, and stacking belts on my hips. Although my grandmother appreciates outfit embellishments, she’s taught me to approach them with intention. They should add to an outfit, not overpower it.
For example, she isn’t afraid to incorporate a pop of color — as long as it matches her accessories, from her bag to her shoes to her belt.
She’s also strategic about her jewelry, choosing pieces based on her neckline and hairstyle that day. Her go-to earrings? Versatile medium-sized hoops, which are big enough to be visible under a range of hairstyles without dominating a look.
Now, my favorite everyday earrings are silver hoops. Every time I put them on, I feel like they brighten me up.
Although I play around with maximalist, trend-forward pieces, I stick to my grandmother’s rules when I want to look elegant and timeless.
She taught me that walking with confidence can upgrade an outfit
My grandmother has always told me that picking out beautiful pieces is just the first step in putting together a great outfit. The way I carry myself when I’m wearing it can make or break a look.
I have vivid memories of her instructing me to walk in a straight line with my shoulders back, stepping with one leg in front of the other. I felt like I was balancing books on my head.
Over the years, walking with confidence has become second nature, whether I’m wearing a dress and heels or a sweatsuit and sneakers. She was right: It does make my clothes look better.
Even when my grandmother has dealt with health issues that affect her movements, she’s always followed her own advice, walking straight with her head held high and shoulders back.
Her wardrobe is built on staple pieces that are practical and make her feel good
My grandmother has never been one to experiment much with clothes. I’m hard-pressed to remember a time when she wasn’t wearing simple garments like straight pants, sweaters, tight long-sleeve T-shirts, or loose short-sleeve T-shirts.
She found her practical, elegant style when she was in high school and stayed true to it through every stage of life.
She gravitates toward easy-to-wear pieces that move with her and fit her body well. To her, clothes are meant to be worn, so they have to look and make her feel good in order to secure a spot in her closet.
For the past five years, I’ve focused on emulating her wardrobe. Every item I buy has to look good, feel nice on my body, and be practical.
When she layers, she makes sure the pieces complement each other
My grandmother has taught me that layering well requires more than throwing on multiple garments and calling it a day. The pieces have to be harmonious.
She has a way of looking elegant even as she combines unlikely pieces. When she’s cold, I see her drape a long wool coat over her shoulders, throw on a pair of leather gloves, and tie a silk scarf around her neck.
Her base is always simple and cohesive, creating the perfect foundation for a layered outfit.
I’ve never been a big fan of layering clothes, but I use the same approach when choosing accessories. I start with a plain base layer before adding small, complementary pieces. I put thought into each one and consider how it works with the overall look.
My grandmother knows that wrinkles can ruin even the most stylish outfit
Growing up, my mom often insisted that I iron my clothes — later, I learned that the advice stemmed from my grandmother, who often shared it with her when she was young.
After all, even the best outfit can look messy if it’s wrinkled.
In my family, crisp lines and smooth sleeves symbolize self-respect and elegance. Now, I follow their advice and never leave the house without ironing my clothes.
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