The situation is relatable to anyone who has been in a parent WhatsApp chat: one person says something ridiculous, and everyone else has to react with varying degrees of politeness or directness. Side chats ensue, tensions start to boil.

Oreogate is a series of viral Instagram posts from user @ashleighjamz about a fight over kindergarteners bringing Oreos for lunch in a classroom group chat, and it hits that exact nerve.

Over 13 videos (so far), the saga unfolds. The mother of “Ava” asks the other parents in the group not to send Oreos in their lunches because Ava isn’t allowed to have Oreos. Ava came home upset and asking for Oreos after…