When I tell people that my youngest daughter is attending the same college as her older twin siblings, I always hear some variation of these questions:

Did they always want to go to the same college? Are you happy you only need to do one drop-off? Are you getting a buy 2 get 1 free discount?

The answer is no, yes, and I wish!

The reaction people have had to them all attending the same school reminds me of when my twins were babies. People were fascinated and had lots of questions.

Even though I am happy that they will have each other at Fordham University in New York, the transition has been hard for me.

They have only been there a few weeks, and…